We have been assigned the task of being non-judgmental for a week (Long ago). Before starting with the task the first question that came to my mind was why should I be non-judgmental. Is this not the gift for us to keep away from people with different wavelength (I don’t want to use the word bad people since no body is good or bad and we are no where has no right to say that).I feel being judgmental will be a problem if only if we disagree to accept or change our opinion after knowing the fact or in other words if we start feeling that what I assumed is right.
Monday, June 1, 2009
Thursday, March 19, 2009
Friday, March 6, 2009
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
Lesson by an injection
I am very allergic towards hospitals and seeing doctors whenever am sick because of only one reason
INJECTION!!!!!!(Not only me i hope).
Today i went to hospital and unfortunately doctor has prescribed Injection.
I was trying to avoid it but the doctor was very firm.So i was cornered to accept it.
Anyway i should have the medicine in the form injection and in future also i might need!
So thought of understanding whether it is the fear or pain.So started analysing,When the nurse was injecting,she was very particular about the vein ,got it and started injecting.The moment the needle came in contact with the skin i felt a bit of pain but during injecting and when she removed the needle from the skin the pain was more!!!! but if the needle is not removed we know the consequenses!
Similarly when some body's action or words hurts i know it will be painful at that moment and realised that have to try to remove it from heart as the needle is being removed from the skin (Even though it is more painful) otherwise the hurt feelings would contaminate the soul.
INJECTION!!!!!!(Not only me i hope).
Today i went to hospital and unfortunately doctor has prescribed Injection.
I was trying to avoid it but the doctor was very firm.So i was cornered to accept it.
Anyway i should have the medicine in the form injection and in future also i might need!
So thought of understanding whether it is the fear or pain.So started analysing,When the nurse was injecting,she was very particular about the vein ,got it and started injecting.The moment the needle came in contact with the skin i felt a bit of pain but during injecting and when she removed the needle from the skin the pain was more!!!! but if the needle is not removed we know the consequenses!
Similarly when some body's action or words hurts i know it will be painful at that moment and realised that have to try to remove it from heart as the needle is being removed from the skin (Even though it is more painful) otherwise the hurt feelings would contaminate the soul.
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
Beautiful and practical lessons that i have learnt today
I have started understanding one thing now a days.Even though we expect some things to happen but when it comes to reality it really hurts!!!!!
I was planning to resign job for various reasons and i did it also.When they accepted the resignation without asking or without talking (I wanted this to happen) i dont know it hurted a lot.It took some time for me to accept that my resignation is been accepted and will work there for only some time till i finish the responsibity that was given to me.
But the funniest part is i never had any intrest in IT and teaching industry when i started this job and later i developed intrest and improved myself.
After some time I was happy that i have been releived without much problem i wanted to analyse the reason that why i felt bad eventhough everything happened according to my wish.
I myself came up with a conclusion that unknowingly i have developed an emotioanl relationship with the place i worked.
I also understood how we get affected when we get emotionally attached with any wordly things.
I was reading some article in which i came across these lines which i remembered when i was really upset on the later part of the day for few minutes.
After remembering these lines i felt releived and i felt comfortable also.
Here are these lines
"In difficult times, the most
important thing is that you love God. That
is your best astrological amulet, your most
secure protective curtain. And if you love
Him, then why be afraid? If you’re afraid,
for that moment you’re losing that love".
I felt that i dont want to loose this love for GOD which is permenant and the thought itself made me refreshing in few minutes.This all happened in about 20minutes.In these 20 min i came for various conclusions which i do not know is right or wrong.
I was planning to resign job for various reasons and i did it also.When they accepted the resignation without asking or without talking (I wanted this to happen) i dont know it hurted a lot.It took some time for me to accept that my resignation is been accepted and will work there for only some time till i finish the responsibity that was given to me.
But the funniest part is i never had any intrest in IT and teaching industry when i started this job and later i developed intrest and improved myself.
After some time I was happy that i have been releived without much problem i wanted to analyse the reason that why i felt bad eventhough everything happened according to my wish.
I myself came up with a conclusion that unknowingly i have developed an emotioanl relationship with the place i worked.
I also understood how we get affected when we get emotionally attached with any wordly things.
I was reading some article in which i came across these lines which i remembered when i was really upset on the later part of the day for few minutes.
After remembering these lines i felt releived and i felt comfortable also.
Here are these lines
"In difficult times, the most
important thing is that you love God. That
is your best astrological amulet, your most
secure protective curtain. And if you love
Him, then why be afraid? If you’re afraid,
for that moment you’re losing that love".
I felt that i dont want to loose this love for GOD which is permenant and the thought itself made me refreshing in few minutes.This all happened in about 20minutes.In these 20 min i came for various conclusions which i do not know is right or wrong.
- Don't get yourself attached emotionally to wordly things.
- When there is no emotioanl attachment there is no expectation.
- When there is no expectation there is no regrets or no hurts.
- When we are upset about something think about the good pharases that we came across.
- Finally Love everybody unconditioanlly.
- Last but not least ,Start and end the day by reading some good books
Sunday, January 18, 2009
Thought for the day
The poorest man, the humblest soul can be happy if he but opens and revels in the infinite storehouse of unseen treasures that are his.
Where are we?
Everyyear on republic day and independence day i remember a girl who was in third standard four years before.
You must be wondering why should i remember a girl on these days.You may even wonder whether is she related with any of these days.
My answer is NO.
But still i remember her for the answer she gave me regarding these two days.
It happened once that i was talking to that child and asked her what she knows about these two days.
Immedialtely She replied i will get holidays on these two days and they will put so many programmes in TV and new picture in Suntv.(was very famouus for new pictures some years before,but now so many in competition).
This is where we are now!!!!! and the young generation is !!!!!!
You must be wondering why should i remember a girl on these days.You may even wonder whether is she related with any of these days.
My answer is NO.
But still i remember her for the answer she gave me regarding these two days.
It happened once that i was talking to that child and asked her what she knows about these two days.
Immedialtely She replied i will get holidays on these two days and they will put so many programmes in TV and new picture in Suntv.(was very famouus for new pictures some years before,but now so many in competition).
This is where we are now!!!!! and the young generation is !!!!!!
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